Monday 2 July 2018

How to convert some complex situation into something very rational or assertive?

Hello Everyone,

After a quite long time, I am reconnecting with you all with a subject which is complex but not very difficult if we look at it positively!

Now just let me ask you few questions before we go ahead with actual solutions to the above subject I am trying to deal with.

1. Have you ever faced any scenario where even though you know that if retrospectively it will be given a thought for then it would be easy to sort out but then at that moment it becomes difficult to arrive at a solution with?
2. Do you observe that in some perplexed situation always it is your own strength helps you but many times you get influenced by people in that situation?
3. Do you think that few situations can't have solutions because of the encircled mob of people?
4. Have you ever seen that every time there is no need to have positive outcome getting arisen from the most complex situation but rational or assertive outcome is welcomed?


The above questions always pinch us a lot including me!
It is like when we go to the shoe shop and want to buy shoes of the size of our feet but we do not get that size and then we ask the owner or his assistants to bring that size and come back again OR we approach a new shop. The same is the case with other things which many times we are willing to buy and their non availability pinches us but we try and get that anyhow. So for such complex situations why can't we confront like this? Because our 1 percent of strong willingness can make wonders...of course that 1 percent is for the sake of making you understand the importance of willingness!

How can we overcome and convert complexity into an assertive one?

1. Retrospective introspection on the problem-
2. Think of the possibilities to resolve it on your own or if any help is needed-
3. Follow the process of solving the problem by converting it into something assertive
4. Extraordinary time management and mind management where practicality pops up at every step
5. Always have positive affirmations in mind while working on the complex situation i.e. it is like chanting mantra for some outcome
6. Concern about situation and people is equally important in such intricacies
7. Law of least effort i.e. acceptance level for anything that comes your way...this kind of approach helps a lot
8. Here futuristic point of view with respect to the present conditions and its implementation decides the destiny of that situation
9. Third person's perspective is very essential in such a scenario where we tend to forget to get into third person's shoes many times
10. Last but not the least is; look at it peacefully and then be patient till the outcome of the same because the period between arising of the complexity and waiting for the outcome is crucial.

The entire gamut of strategies for converting complex into something assertive is just for one sake and i.e. we should not lose our confidence!


 The above ten are ways and means without any definite results but one thing is sure...and i.e. it gives us a lesson for sure and we start looking at it very diligently where failure of getting outcome many times does not upset us but we take it in stride as if the problem is not the problem and solution everytime is not the problem.

Did you understand this? No problem....let us be solutionable entities but let us not make it so palpable that solutions start seeming problematic!

Regards,

Amit Deokule
Executive Leadership Coach
Life Balance Coach
Master Spirit Life Coach
www.soulomkar.co.in
Musician and M.com
info@soulomkar.co.in
International Coach Status

No comments:

Post a Comment