Thursday 2 July 2020

By remaining in the competition how can you stay focused with your potentials by not being competitive?

Hi All Respected Professionals,

Greetings!

After a long time I am here to write something about something.....!!!! :-) :-) :-)

What is that something? It is nothing but staying focused with our passionate potentials!

But at times, what is that which blocks our thought process and that is nothing but competition!

Competition is an inevitable phenomena but how can we stay strong by focusing our potentials by not being competitive? can be a question!

Fighting spirit is a feeling and identifying exact strength of our mind is a qualitative process to follow!

Economics has some relation at every step of everyone's life! Our wants, needs...our demands and supplies according to the same....fluctuations in numbers....wealth creation....monetary products...all these and such similar concepts keep on affecting every one of us as calculations has become a part and parcel of our life!

Likewise competition talks about calculated risks and this in turn disturbs the position of the human being in the outside world!

Competition is like a proliferation( (we can assume it is like spreading of amoeba) which is not healthy when it touches over-excessive limit of its original ability or strength! Competition is like a share market where fluctuations are bound to occur! Competition is like dreams unlimited or nightmares! Competition is like attraction where primarily it looks super dynamic to follow but after peculiar extent it becomes confusing as one has to choose one out of ample of products!

But to avoid any wrongdoing or any mishap out of this concept, how can we well equip ourselves?

Five aspects to keep yourself strong by focusing your potentials by not being competitive-

1. Considering yourself as unique entity of your own life by asking who you are, what the purpose of living life is-
2. Respecting your own strengths and weaknesses as they are and recognizing threats and opportunities to secure future actions by being aware of your behavior!-
3. Identifying  your potentials at the right time with right perspective-
4. Defining your needs and wants  and be honest on your path-
5. Keep on forming a community of variety of people but those who respect you, those we can be guide or mentor for you or who can be your well wishers always and vice versa!-


It is utterly necessary to self actualize few aspects with conviction and it will help you to authenticate your position in the outside world! For the above aspects I think there is no need to give explanation as they are self explanatory!

One aspect which I have not jotted down in the above points and it is like a hidden treasure and i.e. Habit nurturing. Our habits effect or affect our life and right grooming on our habits will decide the course of action in terms of facing the competition or focusing on right things where competition will not bother you. Can we say, "Let us not have competition with ourselves also!" ???

We have learnt to be competitive where Lord Rama never had a competition in his life and Mahabharata always taught us to be competitive. In Western culture we have always learnt about maintaining ourselves in a cut throat competition. Indian Saints never preached us to be competitive but they spread a word about Bhakti (Taste) which always wins over any adversity in life!

Kali Yuga is just disseminating knowledge about being competitive but this in turn is increasing lot of stress! India is a country where more than 70% of the sector is agricultural sector where actually we are not able to observe competition but farmers are struggling a lot in earning against their produced grains/vegetables/fruits etc. We also should agree that weather conditions are so vulnerable that it is affecting the produce of farmers. On the contrary there is a class of people whose income levels and respective streams involve fierce competition and it is in a way hampering few sectors progressively.

In such a situation, what is the accountability of the human being and it is nothing but focusing all those above five aspects which will keep every human being equal and there will not be anything on discriminatory grounds although we can not have that much perfection and clarity in life for anything!

So how the world was fifty years back and how the world will be after fifty years can be a matter of concern now to mull over! Justice is being served when there are easy ways to progress without politicizing any factual scenario and it is difficult! So friends and professionals let us stay connected with positive outlook and take rational decisions at every step!

Be great be kind...few questions always remain open in any discussion and so is this blog as well! Sharing is the spice of life and it is always with 1% of biased approach and hence no wonder if there is competition as a concept which is fearful for most of the human beings at times and so be remaining in the same how can he or she stay focused with potentials by not being competitive was on the platter, so what do you think....? I am going to have sweet, sour, spicy, delicious, crispy and bitterly in my dinner now! I shall tell you the experience of all items getting served in one go for my dinner and my expression on the same! :-) :-) :-)

Regards,
Amit Deokule
Life Balance Coach/Master Spirit Life Coach at CCA, Canada
Executive Leadership Coach at MGSCC
www.soulomkar.co.in
Musician- (Tabla Player, Singer, Poet and Composer)
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