After being contributed to coaching stream with respect to disabled people for a year or so, I have something to share with you all as a learner in the first place and then a coach-
1. Mind is an inherent authority of every person and for the disabled ones, it is a delicated asset more than anything else...!
2. For them...recovery is the toughest call to take when they start looking at life as unique process and a Goal!
3. We all are humans in the first place but in the second place...it is the ultimate truth that these people have to digest that they can accept the way they are! which is the most challenging phase.
4. Motivating them is a thin line between what is their happiness and what are their expectations??? where one has to patiently survive among them to revive them for the survival.
5. Continuously assuming them to be a normal human being and working with them is a simple theory but remember for them it is not easily acceptable because in our absence these people surely get influenced by depressed thought of other careless people and we ave to accept this first.
6. There could be injuries which can not heal for the whole life in their cases but the people who adore such personalities or existences have to be patient and give their own space with charming modalities that could take a different form...! Means...give them or show them pleasurable life but at the same time try to explain to them inner charm which is more important than external one and this is where one has to rehabilitate his or her own vision peculiarly.
7. After being discussed with few foreignor coaches or Indian, too..I am of the opinion that coaching can work fabulously when we do not remain under botheration and at the same time we do not stick to any counselling or psychological stuff producing short term results.
8, We may have our own limitations to continue working with such people but remember...their feasible thinking capacity of the brain limit their ability to think frequently but not like a normal human being... although we all accept that normal human beings require more resoruces to cure many times :).
ARE WE THINKING TO REVIVE OUR OWN VISIONS FOR THE SURVIVAL OF THESE PEOPLE AND THEIR TRUE HAPPINESS??? Many times monetary attractions are appealing to them when we keep working for them and show them the material world but if we work on their expectations and beliefs, gradually results will be seen because they are unrepaired machines with 100% depreciation where we want to fetch them values by making them repairable ones with lesser depreciation may be from 100 to 20%.
WE HAVE TO SHOW THEM HOPES CONTINUOSLY FOR WHATEVER THEY OPT FOR AS THEIR TRUE AND PURE LIFE PATH!!!!!
ARE WE READY???? NO PROBLEM EVEN WE NEED SOME TIME TO THINK HOW WE CAN PROCEED WITH POSITIVE HOPE!!!!
For THEM LOVE, COMMITMENT TO SUPPORT GRACIOUSLY AND EVANGELISTS ARE NEEDED RATHER THAN CARROT AND STICK APPROACH BECAUSE IF WE PRAY GODLY SUPREME POWERS, WHY CAN'T THEY?
BE RADIANT ONES AND SPIRITS FOR ACTIVATING THEIR ENERGY!!!!! We may have got good environment but are they getting that even after providing all luxuries??? :) or SOMETHING DIFFERENT HAS TO BE SERVED???
THINKING CAN BE INFINITE AND SIMILARLY THEIR DREAMS CAN BE!
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Certified Master Spirit Life Coach
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