Seniority- a fake terminology if we can not respect younger ones!!!!!

Dear All,

Greetings!

MONEY POWER! RICH CLASS! LOT OF CONTACTS! SOURCES TO PROVIDE! - All these aspects are buzzwords now a days in the market!!!!!

HONESTY! TRANSPARENCY! STRAIGHT FORWARD APPROACH! EXCLUSIVE TALENT! - All these aspects are like illusion of one's personality!!!!!

The above two catetgories have started discriminating with repsect to seniority! It is spreading wrong signals in the society and people are fully taking disadvantage of it because they want to empower people with the first category over the other one which is like a soft tune in the music!!!!

Hard hitting phenomena is getting established with the first category invariably as some people are more than clever to portray that they respect elements of second category but with lot of stylish and luxurious dos' and donts'!

They know that money plays an integral part in maiking somebody a slave of them!!!! SLAVES, this category sucks one's life miserably even after having so much of talent and somebody starts feeling that his or her life is like a "BAPTISM OF FIRE" and the space available for them , their own life is huge but has been seized by so called politically respected people( here not only political people but also normal humans beings are concerned) who want to rule the other for SURE because he or she starts assuming himself or herself as invincible from the stage where they realize that ruling over is the only rule of this world and for that monetary richness should be depicted which includes lot of contacts, sources etc!!! WHAT A PITY OF THIS WORLD AND THINKING OF PEOPLE!!!!!

It is like there is  raining cats and dogs outside and somebody is trying to get a shelter till the time rain gets stopped and that is the biggest advantage people are taking who are sheltered with lot of facilities!!!!

I daily pray Lord Shrikrishna that you preached Geetha to Arjun and have stated lot of dutiful and sacred measures to follow for a pure life process but with sure ethics of pragmatism as well, then why can't you bless honest ones like Arjun in present times, when they need a transparent divine power to live with pride???

Alas, Lord is not listening to me because he may be thinking, ""what a situation of the world! It is not prudent to incarnate now in this politically eclipsed corrupted world!!!""

Honest people are getting stabbed like anything and there life is like assassination done without any physical effort by anybody!!!!

Honesty and Talents is the equation of ancient times when we were not aware of cleverness particularly which can be used constantly! Then people started using clever honesty of impure approach to rule over and that became a trend of current time and it has been continuing since long where honest people are taking birth but their talents are getting suppressed and eventually the whole personality has been sent for the cremation even though they are alive!!!!!

Oh what a poor situation!!!! ENOUGH OF THIS FALSE EMPOWERMENT AND LIVE AND LET LIVE POLICY SHOULD BE SHAPED UP WITH A PURE VISION HENCEFORTH BECAUSE ONE    REQUEST LORD SHRIKRISHNA HAS DONE TO THE KALI WHEN HE GOT INCARNATED IN THIS WORLD WITH THE FIRST CATEGORY THAT PLEASE DO NOT DO ANY INJUSTICE TO THE PEOPLE WHO ARE PRAYING LOYALLY TO THE ALMIGHTY OTHERWISE I MAY INCARNATE TO PREVENT YOU FROM DOING INJUSTICE TO SUCH ENTITIES!

So hold on KALI YUGA....there is an incarnation which is happening now and then the terminology of ELITE class will definitely change drastically!!!!!

LIVE WITH HONESTY, TRANSPARENCY AND EMPOWRMENT OF KINDNESS!!!!

IS IT A GOOD MORAL OF THE ABOVE PARA WHICH HAS GOT INSPIRED FOR NOW????

Friends, think over it and be a wise entity to save this world from getting demolished, no material value will fetch any precious value and otherwise also it is not, right?????

DO NOT DISRESPECT SOME TALENT EVEN IF IT IS YOUNGER TO YOU because of above ASPECTS!!!!! KIND REQUEST!!!

Regards,

Amit Deokule
Certified Life Coach
Certified Master Spirit Life Coach
Member of CCA, Canada,
www.soulomkar.com
Musician/Accounting professional  

HR cultural orientation should be developed from every house???

Dear All,

Greetings!

When we talk about Human Resource department of any organization, it is considered as the most key department since the asset of human gets structured in the organization through that and then everything gets coordinated from there where satisfaction, remuneration, working code of conduct, nature of work, perquisites, appraisals get extended!

Without this department , nothing can be possible in any organization. Many times their visioned approach decides every move in the organization as then customer orientation, trainings, coaching facilitate from that department.

Motivation is the most pre-requisite psychological factor which becomes an important element while working. We always differ our own life by comparing personal and professional platforms separately, however considering both the aspects of the same entity....nothing supercedes each other.

In current times, the nature and working of HR has changed a lot where efficient people are needed and numbers are emphasized rather than anything else. Ofcourse quality is measured for sure but it is time to analytically think about whether that quality and humanly standards are getting maintained?

Somewhere since there are and have been people from various communities, always many subconscious minds are working for one conscious state i.e. one organization and so on and so forth! Hence there is a jumbling created by many although they may be following code of conduct of their respective organization!  Because of this many aspects are being ignored by them and then....things can go haywire....!

Now the question is; when anybody works in the organization in HR, what and how should be his or her approach? We may not be talking about these aspects in detail but then why only numbers and commission are getting emphasized in HR now a days where humanly element and placing right candidate with right spirit and potential; is forgotten predominantly????

Then I would say that the question I have raised in the subject line Would that make a difference or if not then what can be done because every department is working without humanizing their own personality?

People are least bothered about valuing every case while recruting the candidate! Then I would say that cultural orientation is missing somewhere and people are learning to be the perfect candidate for HR to earn money but not to earn true respect! Then I would take the opportunity to quote that let us start developing their attitude being HR from every house...because then every house will also remain attached to the family members and more often human element will peep in and depict the real existence of natural human being!!! :-)

Life coaching has sense to improve these aspects individually or socially in a group! Superficially it may be portrayed that we being HR ; are there to help you out but are we getting benefitted from HR's policies in every organization? Pre-recruitment stage is also experiencing lot of loopholes and lacunas in the process where interested candidates are contacted but then they are not contacted if certain cases are ignored for the said vacancy or recruitment process even after interest of knowing the feedback getting extended!

We know that the world is become so fast that one has to focus what is important during every stage of achieving any target but the questions remains....Has world become so fast that we have started forgetting human values so easily?????

Regards,

Amit Deokule
Certified Life Balance Coach
Certified Master Spirit Life Coach
Member of CCA, Canada,
www.soulomkar.com
Musician/Accounting-Finance Professional

General Awareness from coaches in case of disabled people and their mind recovery

Hi All,

Greetings! 

After being contributed to coaching stream with respect to disabled people for a year or so, I have something to share with you all as a learner in the first place and then a coach-

1. Mind is an inherent authority of every person and for the disabled ones, it is a delicated asset more than anything else...!

2. For them...recovery is the toughest call to take when they start looking at life as unique process and a Goal!

3. We all are humans in the first place but in the second place...it is the ultimate truth that these people have to digest that they can accept the way they are! which is the most challenging phase.

4. Motivating them is a thin line between what is their happiness and what are their expectations??? where one has to patiently survive among them to revive them for the survival.

5. Continuously assuming them to be a normal human being and working with them is a simple theory but remember for them it is not easily acceptable because in our absence these people surely get influenced by depressed thought of other careless people and we ave to accept this first.

6. There could be injuries which can not heal for the whole life in their cases but the people who adore such personalities or existences have to be patient and give their own space with charming modalities that could take a different form...! Means...give them or show them pleasurable life but at the same time try to explain to them inner charm which is more important than external one and this is where one has to rehabilitate his or her own vision peculiarly.

7. After being discussed with few foreignor coaches or Indian, too..I am of the opinion that coaching can work fabulously when we do not remain under botheration and at the same time we do not stick to any counselling or psychological stuff producing short term results.

8, We may have our own limitations to continue working with such people but remember...their feasible thinking capacity of the brain limit their ability to think frequently but not like a normal human being... although we all accept that normal human beings require more resoruces to cure many times :).

ARE WE THINKING TO REVIVE OUR OWN VISIONS FOR THE SURVIVAL OF THESE PEOPLE AND THEIR TRUE HAPPINESS??? Many times monetary attractions are appealing to them when we keep working for them and show them the material world but if we work on their expectations and beliefs, gradually results will be seen because they are unrepaired machines with 100% depreciation where we want to fetch them values by making them repairable ones with lesser depreciation may be from 100 to 20%.

WE HAVE TO SHOW THEM HOPES CONTINUOSLY FOR WHATEVER THEY OPT FOR AS THEIR TRUE AND PURE LIFE PATH!!!!!

ARE WE READY???? NO PROBLEM EVEN WE NEED SOME TIME TO THINK HOW WE CAN PROCEED WITH POSITIVE HOPE!!!!

For THEM LOVE, COMMITMENT TO SUPPORT GRACIOUSLY AND EVANGELISTS ARE NEEDED RATHER THAN CARROT AND STICK APPROACH BECAUSE IF WE PRAY GODLY SUPREME POWERS, WHY CAN'T THEY?

BE RADIANT ONES AND SPIRITS FOR ACTIVATING THEIR ENERGY!!!!! We may have got good environment but are they getting that even after providing all luxuries??? :) or SOMETHING DIFFERENT HAS TO BE SERVED??? 

THINKING CAN BE INFINITE AND SIMILARLY THEIR DREAMS CAN BE! 

Regards,

Amit Deokule

Certified Life Coach

Certified Master Spirit Life Coach

Member of CCA, Canada

www.soulomkar.com

Musician/Accounts Professional

Want to get pressurized or come out of it???

Hi All,

After a long time, I am publishing something on the blog. I was pressurized to write something. Hold On….I may have used a wrong word “Pressurized” but friends , the trend is such where we all are pressurizing each other for the sake of earning and living.

Now I would say that I was motivated to write something because of this word “Pressurized”.

Competitiveness and Comparison, the last blog was on the said subject but now I wanted to extend my willingness to raise a question how we are going to manage “Pressure”.

Giving Pressure, Getting Pressurized, Taking Pressure…I was wondering how one will survive when he or she will continuously be in the same circle of people who like to see somebody getting pressurized or giving pressure. Slavery has created this phenomena and people are trying to live up to the expectations of Pressurized feeling. Some may get through, some fail, some get stuck, some suffer and some get exploited.  I do not want to talk about success rate or excellence rate when pressures are being put.

I want to extend this discussion because implications of this would be horrible in the future. Forget about the future but in current times since we are forgetting the existing value of humanity due to this.

For the sake of meeting both the ends in life, one has to accept the job as it is and go ahead blindly without thinking of what may happen if such a pressurized attitude continues….!

Would this really expose the real potential of people?

Would this serve the cause and effect of every act diligently?

Would this give true happiness out of job one is performing?

Would knowledge be justified under such circumstances?

Would organization be benefitted exponentially high?

How long this trend can be continued if we do not want to respect each other’s professional or personal existence?

Why one should be treated as slave in such a scenario? Why can’t we give free space, even computer needs a free space and human asset only creates that free space by defragging or deleting unnecessary data?

I would say that by pressurizing each other in the community of humans, we are extending virus packages which will come with a handsome price prima facie but in the long run…its authenticity will expire and price will have to be reduced as everybody or everything needs anti-virus and  Getting Pressurized, giving Pressures is nothing but creating viruses in the community substantially.

Hey, it will be our primary responsibility to take pressures for winning our own “SELF” but then let these pressures have an essence of Respect, Effulgence of Integrated feeling, helping approach, growth attitude with real sense of belongingness. We all are flowers but withering them ; should not be our target but blossoming them ; is our essential assigned motive.

Am I right, am I pressurizing you by saying so? Do not get that feeling but have precious feeling from within to realize what one’s existence really means for each other! May be tomorrow, Earth will ask everyone when she will start facing rapid calamities and that process has already been started!!!!

Cheers, Amit

We all are victims of Comparisons and Competitiveness

Dear all,

Greetings!!! After a long time SoulOmkar is posting on its blog about comparability ratio in consonance with Competitiveness since it felt that this is a serious issue which should be converted into fructifying solution!!!

We all are hovering around the world of competitiveness since external world demands the same progressively because of which the said phenomena has tremendous reflection in our personal lives also!!!
We tend to get swayed towards this concept as competitiveness lets people run behind status, money, fame and allied pleasurable luxuries!!! This in turn causes tremendous traumatic impact on one's life but we have forgotten our social values, humanly qualities in this far superior competitive marketed streams of pragmatic life. How one is going to become happy in such a situation!!!??

This competition is also growing far traditional activity of being compared with each other!!!
We are bound to get affected by influential comparisons which happen in personal as well as professional lives!!! Because of comparisons and competitions we have kept our real qualities, essential elements of personality behind in the dustbins of negative side of the coin. We are unnecessarily focusing on outcomes with only extraordinarily attached monetary and marketed elements which is spoiling the whole show!!!!

Can we bring congruence in between comparison and competition?

Congruence is a state which can make anything a balanced process where outcome can not be definite but we can ensure sustained output converting our unconditional or conditional minds reliable to produce calculative product relating to our personal or professional goals!!!

The same way, let us thrive off challenging deals for our own improvement in our own capability models of potentials and test ourselves modestly because world is not going to change or it may change organically but it is our prime responsibility to extend our flexible minds to change our perception to achieve determined vision where after doing so, we may get inorganically dynamic outcomes. So In between comparisons and competitions let us have congruent factor to re-shape out confused state of mind and re-organize our own life in a balanced way!!!!

To maintain congruence what can be done-

1. Think of various situations of decision making process.
2. Think from all angles
3. Give your perception an unconditional flexible power to look at things with a bigger mind of pure attitude.
4. See every situation differently.
5. Recognize our potentials and at the same time limitations of our capable personality.
6. Put ourselves in the shoes of our own situation where we are doing some task which is not at all our liking but still situation is making us do so and we are fighting contagiously but with all protections of presence of mind on ; to curb what is to be stopped and to create which has to be continued to flourish.
7. Understand other's life process well when we are in a stage to understand our own life diligently.
8. Give your failures a booster of motivational preaching.
9. Increase acceptance level.
10. Decide your own pleasures and ofcourse their path of progress with balancing act of negotiated feeling at every moment of uncertain life.
11. Enjoy the present moment.
12. Be blessed with what we have as an asset of one's personality and be content with the same.


Hope we all will stop comparing with each other and forget that it is a world of competition but would take in stride the same as congruently focused mission to establish peaceful happiness in each other's life as LIFE AS A CONCEPT IS A UNIQUE ONE AND ONLY ONE WHICH WE GET ONLY ONCE!!!!!

Cheers and blissful joy!!!!

Amit
Certified Life Balance Coach
certified Master Spirit Life Coach
www.soulomkar.com
www.soulomkarvision.blogspot.com

Why do we tend to change the people and society thereon?

Dear All,

Greetings!!!!

Our perception continuously looks for something where change will occur and then we go on searching for the same resources. We always want things to happen in our favor and if they do not then we get upset.

Expectation and Hope does not go hand in hand as they connote similar meaning but does not have that spice of linking actually.

But since human being has something in extra to foresee or even share...we tend to think that the world around us should change as per our perception and also people around us should make that change to experience...!

However, it does not really so every time we expect something in return after giving and that is the litmus test for all of us.

We need "CHANGE" but for what purpose change has to be occurred; matters a lot.

We all are creative, potentially good enough to see things happening but external forces are bound to be there popping up , so what would be our changing strategy to hold those external forces and see changes occurring??

It is difficult or it is much easier process to change people, perception, period, place as per our wants and needs. Change is for satisfying our EGO or change is to cultivate better image in the society for something?

Change is for giving benevolently or change is for receiving good returns?

Change if for the well being of the people or change is for keeping invisible energy intact in something?

Change depends upon Demand and Supply theory or change depends upon circumstances ?

Why there have been great philosophers or management personalities who have written dynamically about change or going/thinking beyond change????

What are the parameters of change and why they should be in such a manner?

We all must give a thought on "Perception and Vision" of person and the society as a whole , after being analyzed the same, we may realize the appropriation of thoughts to make a change in the scenario where we hover around!!!!!

So be cautious and well prepared to make changes where you will get something in return which has an essence of Godly perspective as nobody can't deny the invisible energy which is natural.

In the current world, lot many changes are needed in one's life or the society or the nation or the world around but if somebody has something obscure in mind for the change to happen, how things will support your unconditional approach???


So gradual changes or rapid changes, all depend upon circumstances of the cases but giving justice for the situation properly ; is our matter of wisdom which is important!!!!!

KEEP IN MIND THAT WE WANT  TO CHANGE OR WANT TO GO BEYOND CHANGE AT TIMES BECAUSE IT IS A TRANSFORMATION WHICH IS GOING TO DECIDE THE DESTINY OF BEING GOOD!!!!

Cheers, Amit
CLBC, CMSLC
www.soulomkar.com

Balanced Mapped Mind gives you energy, effectivity, enthusiasm!!!!!

Dear All,

Greetings!!!

Soulomkar is approaching you through our Blog after quite a long time....!!!!! We assume that it was a gestation period to think on many aspects and angles of life processes.

Now we are here to talk about mind mapping which everybody does invariably but since we do not analyze it consciously decisions go wrong sometimes.

On every situation we tend to think mindfully. Our bold and beautiful disciplinary actions as per our own able vision, makes our decisions fruitful and resultant factor moulds our next action....!!!!

One can not imagine of the outcome many times but if we have balanced approach and if we do map our soulful mind and its repercussions watchfully, we can gather what is expected and how it can be attained or achieved. We are always in search of achievement motivation and that gives us energy to produce next thought with progressive reflections.

When we confront any situation...our mind observes it consciously and then passes the signal to our subconscious and then it tallies that situation with our already preserved pre-determined thoughts by our subconscious. Lot of gamble and prejudices may make our mind disturbed as subconscious may have impressions of several births...!!!!

But to equalize the situational decision..one has to create balanced mapping of our mind and its reflections on our strategical thinking to arrive at some disciplined decision according to our vision.

One should have approach where if he or she thinks it is the best then one should not get distracted from that decision. So to be in a position to attain that stage of accepting the disciplinary decisions taken at individual'e end...balanced mapped mind helps us in reviving the moment with evolutionary steps taken.

On one thought may be..we have ample of opinions where mind mapping starts but yes we can convert mind mapping into balanced mapped mindful activity by transforming our conscious decisions into effective progression. It is possible provided we have enthusiastic connection with cosmic and natural laws of living life and confronting measures.

Hey All....we all have strength of assessing our own path by having path breaking willingness positively. However we all forget our potential and get influenced externally with higher percentage. But we must to our inner voice at every step because that will give shape to out mapped mind in a balanced way...So do not forget to pamper your mapped mind with proper cosmic evaluation!!!!!


Regards,

Amit
www.soulomkar.com
Certified Life Coach and Master Spirit Life Coach